Having problems in your relationship? See how to keep your man to yourself alone
In this article, we will tell you the key things you can do as a woman to keep your man. We will also share with you the vital things a man expects from his woman.
Apply the following tips, and see the change it will make in your relationship.
Men yes do love sexx, but they want to be loved as well. Thank him, cheer him and encourage him. Surprise him: unexpected kisses, hugs, romance, tell him about his looks, his masculine assertiveness and appreciate his efforts as a leader.
As a man, I want to be trusted. Some women, because they have had their bad past experience, they tend to think a new relationship will be equally bad. Most broken people get into relationships expecting the new partner to nurse their wounds. At times that perpetuates the previous problem. At most you need to learn that there was no problem. The real problem was & is still you. Heal and trust!
Beauty is crucial for a man. He is moved by what he sees. So what he sees should be clean, cute, attractive and nice. Smell great all the time girl! Personally if there is anything that put me off, a bad smell just switches me off.
4. Quality Sexx
No man, I repeat, NO man wants a dead wood in bed, make every sexx experience count. Try dancing, move your body, tweak. Don’t just sleep like a dead cow.
Men want sexx more than most women know. The more you have sexx, with your man, the more you are connected with him. So, the lesser the sexx, the bigger the gape that separates you both. I know at times as a women you won’t be wanting sexx, but compromise plays a crucial role.
5. Sexx Answers To Most Problems
Sexx is important for man, and it could help relief stress, you should not deny him that. Most marital problems start because the man was starved of sexx. So, before they meet any beautiful lady in town, let your man meet you first. Even if you would rather have sexx before you get into any activities/ chores, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.
6. Don’t Bribe Your Man Sexually
Don’t only give sexx as to your man when he has done good, for example giving you money or presents. Give sexx also when things are not well. Some women only give because they have been given or they want something given-that bribery.
7. Don’t Be A Problem
Don’t become another problem to your man, do not try to influence him or challenge him to change. At times as men we have developed a mechanism where you think we will be listening, but not at all because you might be talking too much. At times a man will agree just to end the fight, that is what is called giving up.
Most men would spend most of their times at church / beer hall or with friends more than with their wives. Why? That is called escapism, running away from the partner to avoid problem.
8. Tongue Issue
Avoid negative, critical and spiteful comments to your man. Don’t compare your man to other men. If he does not sexually satisfy you, the best if never to confront him, but seek for a happy moment where you talk about your sexually fantasies. Use emotional intelligence. Tell him what you want sexually and what satisfies you. Your tone matters! Your mood! And your communications skills.
9. Men Too Do Suffer In Silence
Most men won’t talk that much, especially church men. They suffer from sexual starvation or sexual punishment, which leads to bitterness and frustration. To a man sexx matters. You would rather stop everything and rock him wildly. A sexx starved man can be as dangerous as a mad dog.
10. Be Initiative
Women should start the game at times. Don’t wait for a man to always start everything. Men wants to you to communicate what you feel. Most men do want their women to conquer as the lioness, show it off. Tell him, “Oh Daddy, you rock me in bed! You are my hero”.
Women create fake moods, situations, sickness to avoid sexx, at the other hand it is dangerous. Psychologically, that kills a man’s spirit. When you do that, it is registered into the man’s subconscious mind. That will grow to an extent your man does not push you for sexx anymore. When that happens, things fall apart.
12. Sometimes, Give Him A Little Space:
At times a man needs time to think, re-think and re-strategize in other to be able to fix certain things, please DO NOT deny him that little space. When your man comes from work, welcome him, and then give him some time to settle. Please don’t pile up everything on him. He needs time as well.
13. Be Supportive
I had to keep this one for you, there’s no way it could have skipped my brain. This is one area that has been overlooked by so many individuals which have resulted in different broken relationship, supporting and motivating your man is ideal.
Remember the saying that “Behind every successful man, there’s a Woman”, support your man in everything he does. If you don’t like his profession or carrier, let him change it to something both of you can handle. Every man loves a woman that can run his business, DO NOT be the other woman.
14. Be Prayerful
Prayer is the key to anything, never keep prayers out of your relationship. Pray for your man, pray for yourself, pray for your relationship.
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